I did not run out of time, I left the games. it affects everyone equally.
there is a difference between being in a 100% lost position and being in a 'likely' lost position; if one can't tell, keeping on playing is off course the right thing to do.
but if one can't see that the game is lost one round before the end of the game while being dead last in culture and losing a war with 50 strength difference, that is another story; and I also thought: this won't happen regularly, but I experienced these things several times in just a few seasons.
'you should not play 3p/4p games competitvely'
that's exactly my conclusion, thanks for repeating it to me.